Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about St. John’s

Visiting

What should I expect on my first visit?

You’ll be warmly welcomed at the door by an usher who can help you find a seat and hand you a service bulletin. Our worship follows the Book of Common Prayer — everything you need is in the bulletin or the hymnal in your pew. Come as you are; there’s no dress code.

Is St. John’s LGBTQ+ affirming?

Yes. LGBTQ+ people are welcome at St. John’s just as they are — to worship, to receive the sacraments, to serve in ministry, and to make this parish their spiritual home. We are part of The Episcopal Church, which affirms the full inclusion of LGBTQ+ people in the life of the church, including marriage and ordination. Whoever you are and whomever you love, there is a place for you here.

Is there parking available?

Yes. We have parking available all around the church, with handicap parking located near the entrance of the church building. Street and public parking are also available nearby in downtown Hampton.

Do you have programs for children during the service?

Yes. We have a nursery in the parish house for ages five and below, staffed by background-checked paid staff and open for all Sunday services and Christian Education classes. Children are welcome and encouraged to stay in church too — there are activity bags in every vestibule, and something for children at every service, whether children’s chapel or a children’s sermon. Sunday school, for 2nd through 5th grade, meets at 10 a.m. between the services, September through May.

Is the building accessible?

Yes. All of our buildings are wheelchair accessible, and we have hearing aid devices in the sanctuary for those who need them. We work with the Faith Inclusion Network to keep growing in our accessibility — if there is anything you need, please let us know so we can make your time with us work well for you.

Worship

What is the Episcopal Church?

The Episcopal Church is part of the worldwide Anglican Communion — a tradition rooted in scripture, reason, and tradition. We are a liturgical church that values both ancient practice and contemporary engagement with the world.

Do I need to be Episcopalian to receive Communion?

No. All baptized Christians are welcome to receive the Holy Eucharist at St. John’s, regardless of denomination. If you prefer, you may come forward for a blessing instead — simply cross your arms over your chest.

What are Rite I and Rite II?

The Book of Common Prayer provides two forms for the Eucharist. Rite I uses traditional, Elizabethan-era language (‘thee’ and ‘thou’). Rite II uses contemporary English. Both are fully valid celebrations of the same sacrament. At St. John’s we use Rite II for most of the year and Rite I in Advent and Lent.

Do you livestream services?

Yes. Our 11 a.m. Sunday Eucharist is livestreamed each week on our YouTube channel. A link is available on the homepage.

Getting Involved

How do I become a member?

Membership begins with regular participation in worship. If you’d like to make St. John’s your spiritual home, speak with the Rector, contact the parish office, or fill in the Join the Parish form on our I’m New page.

How do I join a ministry?

Visit our Ministries page to explore opportunities, or contact the parish office and we’ll help match your gifts and interests to a ministry.

How can I give financially?

You can give online through our Giving page, by mail, or in the offering plate on Sundays. We accept one-time gifts and recurring pledges.

Do you have small groups or Bible studies?

Yes, our bible study meets in-person at noon on Thursdays. We also have a book club, a men’s group, and St. Anne’s Guild. See our Calendar for details.

Sacraments & Pastoral Care

How do I arrange a baptism?

Contact the Rector to discuss baptism preparation. You do not have to be a member of St. John’s to be baptized here, though the clergy expect that you will be attending church regularly and will attend the baptismal preparation classes. All baptisms take place in the presence of the congregation during corporate worship, except in an emergency.

Can we hold our wedding at St. John’s?

Weddings are currently offered to active members of the congregation — same-sex and opposite-sex couples alike. Weddings at St. John’s are officiated by our clergy. At least one party should be a baptized Christian. Contact the parish office at least six months in advance to begin planning.

How do I request prayers or pastoral visits?

Call the parish office or email us anytime. Our clergy and lay pastoral care team are available for hospital visits, home communion, and prayer support.